He stops all communication with you for a while,
though you call him to apologise. Most times we tend to say some things
we regret much later.
Here are a few words considered offensive which you shouldn't say to your man:
1. 'You spend so much on your friends': They
are his friends and not yours and telling him he wastes money on them
would make it look like you are in charge of his finances. He is likely
to stop discussing money matters with you if you both get back together.
2. 'You don't measure up to my brother/father's status': You
shouldn't have considered a relationship if he didn't meet your
family's standards in the first place. Reminding him of his current
position could make him resentful towards you.
3.Cursing with the 'F' word: He may
understand if you are having a conversation about something, as long as
it's not directed at him. Directing the 'F' word at your boyfriend could
cause a gradual breakdown of your relationship.
4. Snide comments about his mother:
His mother is a no-go area for you. Doesn't matter how much he
disagrees with her, it doesn't give you the right to make derogatory
remarks about your partner's mother. He may see you as a disrespectful
person generally.
5. 'You are still hung on your ex': Doesn't matter how
obvious it is, reminding him of his past relationship could bring about
some unexpected reactions. Let him tell you about his past when he's
ready.
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